On the internet dating isn't a competition between competing males for the attention of a female. Grow up. Change your mind set from winning to searching. This isn't high school. You're all grown up and have been for very some time, now. Your attitude is the most critical asset you've. You should like yourself and not completely focus of all of the issues that aren't YOUR idea of the ideal guy the one the all women want.
What is that women want, you ask That's the age old question. Being of the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few issues women want and do not want.
Women want a man to be confident NOT an arrogant jerk. There's a large difference. You'll want to like yourself and not be self depreciating however, you don't will need to come across like you believe that you might be a gift to them from God and have just fallen from the sky. They don't want you to feel that THEY just fell from heaven and are some type of perfect being, either. They can't live up to that expectation.
Women want a communicator. The strong silent type truly isn't appealing at all. They think you probably don't have an original thought inside your head and you almost certainly haven't heard a word they said, either or that you just do not care what they said or didn't even hear what they said. They want you to be interesting enough to wish to know more about you and they want you to think that they're interesting enough to ask intelligent questions about what is crucial to them, too.
Women don't need to be a prize to be won. They do not need to be a trophy. They need to be the One woman that you would like to be with.